As a big introvert who prefers to sit in a quiet corner and listen more instead of speaking, the concept of networking seemed crazy. 'Claudia, you’re really not good at it,' I thought to myself.

During a class at UNC, a guest from Nike shared a powerful idea: "Your network is your net worth." This thought stayed with me, especially after hearing Andy Vitale at a NetApp event discuss design and networking. He likened us all to banks, emphasizing the value of our connections. "Have you ever talked to the people here?" he asked. Reflecting on this in the back of the room, I realized I hadn't networked much. It’s clear, I had to admit, that networking is not my thing.

A turning point came from a coffee chat with a senior UX designer. Her willingness to share her journey, insights on content-first design, and the importance of giving back to the community transformed my view of networking. It wasn't just a tool for job hunting; it was a gateway to growth and contribution.

If networking seems intimidating to you, or if you're a student keen to explore this industry but daunted by the idea of taking that first step, know that you're not alone! I'm here to share some strategies that have significantly helped me navigate these waters. I hope that these tips will make your journey into networking smoother and more approachable.

1. Just Show Up.

Showing up is the key lesson I've learned from attending various events. Yes, networking can feel daunting, but taking that first step is crucial. We often let our fears and assumptions hold us back before we even start. My experience has shown me that the reality of networking isn't as intimidating as we imagine. Simply put, it's important to show up and give it a try.

2. Prepare Beforehand.

The tip came from my colleague who is skilled in networking. She shared her strategy with me: preparing a list of thoughtful questions for speakers she was interested in. After that, I no longer just admired those who were confident in networking; I came to understand that networking skill isn't an innate trait but something honed with hard work.

3. Be Genuinely Curious

Networking isn't just about job hunting; it's also about discovering shared interests that go beyond professional titles. Sometimes, it's the unexpected conversations—about music, podcasts, or other passions—that lead to meaningful connections. It's important to keep an open mind and embrace these diverse interactions.

4. Don’t take every coffee chat for granted

I like the idea of sending thank-you notes after interviews or networking. It's not just about getting closer to a job, but also a heartfelt way to say thanks for someone's time and wisdom. It really matters when we open up and let our connections know they've made a real impact on us.

I'm deeply grateful to everyone in the UX field who has inspired me, helped refine my ideas about networking, and taught me to be less judgmental. We are all mosaics, shaped by the people who have poured into us. Also, I truly appreciate you taking the time to read my story.